What matters to you right now?
What are you getting out of the current situation?
What do you stand to gain by changing? What might you lose by changing?
Is it worth the effort?
And if so, how much?
Now try to picture yourself in the new situation you’re considering:
Do you feel comfortable with the idea of this change in your life?
Do you truly, deeply want this change?
Have you clearly weighed the pros and cons of this change?
Make a pros/cons table in your notebook and fill it in.